
Sarah Elliston
Confidence & Self-Belief Specialist
Performance anxiety can derail careers, drain the joy from sport and music, and create a cycle of avoidance that gets harder to break over time. RTT addresses it at the root — and the results can be remarkable.
Performance anxiety is one of those conditions that creates a particularly cruel cycle: the anxiety about performing badly becomes the very thing that makes you perform badly. You step into the spotlight dreading failure, your mind floods with worst-case scenarios, and the very resources you need — focus, calm, access to your skills — are hijacked by the stress response. After a poor performance, the anxiety reinforces itself: 'See? I knew I wasn't good enough.' And the next high-stakes situation becomes even more daunting.
Performance anxiety affects people across every kind of performance context: athletes before important competitions, musicians before concerts, actors before auditions, professionals before presentations or interviews, students before exams. What they all share is the experience of being significantly below their actual capability when the pressure is on — and often, a growing habit of avoidance as a way of escaping the anxiety.
The interesting thing about performance anxiety is that it's rarely really about the performance itself. It's about what the performance represents. For one person, poor performance might feel like proof of their inadequacy. For another, it might trigger fear of humiliation, rejection, or letting down the people who matter to them. The performance becomes a referendum on their worth, safety, or belonging — and of course, when the stakes feel that high, the nervous system responds accordingly.
RTT is highly effective for performance anxiety precisely because it gets beneath the surface behaviour to the belief that's driving it. Sarah uses regression to find the original experience that first made performance feel high-stakes in this particular way — often a specific moment of public failure, criticism, or humiliation. By revisiting that scene with adult perspective and reframing the meaning made there, she can change the emotional charge attached to high-stakes situations.
The result isn't the removal of all nerves — some activation is useful and even necessary for peak performance. What changes is the quality of that activation. Instead of the paralysing dread that comes from a belief that failure is catastrophic, clients develop what psychologists call 'facilitative anxiety' — an energised, focused state that actually enhances performance rather than undermining it. Athletes report feeling 'in the zone' more consistently. Musicians describe playing with greater freedom and expressiveness. Professionals find themselves engaging confidently rather than white-knuckling their way through.
If you've been dealing with performance anxiety — whether in sport, music, work, or any other context — and it's been getting in the way of your potential, RTT offers one of the most direct and effective routes to change. The belief that drives the anxiety can be found, understood, and updated. And when it is, performance becomes what it should be: an opportunity to express your genuine capability, not to survive a test of your worth.
Sarah Elliston
RTT Practitioner · Certified Hypnotherapist · Coach
Sarah works with clients across South Wales and the UK to help them overcome anxiety, build confidence, and create lasting change through RTT, hypnotherapy, and coaching.
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